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The application process for admission to Elmer Day Sober Living is straightforward.

If you are transitioning from a treatment program, please coordinate with your counselor to submit a request for placement at Elmer Day. Individuals with IEHP insurance are eligible to have their funding covered for the first six months.

If you are not coming from a treatment program and are interested in private payment options, please email us directly at info@elmerdayhomes.com or call us at (951) 234-5730 to speak with our Director and inquire about availability.

At Elmer Day Sober Living, guests are expected to uphold a standard of responsibility and accountability. This includes maintaining the cleanliness of their personal living space and contributing to the upkeep of the house by completing a daily assigned chore. Guests are also required to attend a minimum of three recovery meetings per week to support their ongoing sobriety and personal growth.

Additionally, guests are responsible for purchasing and preparing their own meals. We foster an environment of mutual respect, responsibility, and productivity. By adhering to these expectations, you will find yourself well-suited to the supportive and structured community we offer at Elmer Day Sober Living.

Elmer Day Sober Living currently operates four recovery homes, all situated in the heart of downtown Riverside. At present, we offer three homes dedicated to men and one home that serves individuals from the LGBTQ+ community. We are actively working toward expanding our services with the planned addition of a women’s home in the near future, as part of our continued commitment to providing safe, supportive, and inclusive sober living environments for all.

At Elmer Day Sober Living, we strive to make the intake process smooth, welcoming, and respectful for every new guest. Upon arrival, you will be greeted by a team member and guided through the following steps:

1. Initial Interview – A brief, friendly conversation to get to know you, discuss your recovery goals, and ensure our home is the right fit for your needs.
2. Belongings Check – For the safety and comfort of all residents, we conduct a quick inspection of your bags.
3. Guest Agreement – You’ll review and complete the necessary paperwork outlining our house rules, expectations, and community standards.
4. Urinalysis – A standard drug screening is performed to support the safety and integrity of our sober environment.
5. Home Tour – You’ll be shown around the property and introduced to the common areas and amenities.
6. Room Assignment – Finally, you’ll be shown to your room and given time to settle in and get comfortable.

Our goal is to help you feel at home from the moment you walk through the door. Welcome to the Elmer Day family.

Yes, we do offer a number of beds allocated for private pay. These spots tend to fill up quickly due to high demand. Pricing varies depending on the specific house and room type you’re interested in. For current availability and rates, please contact us directly,  we’ll be happy to provide details and help find the best fit for your needs.

To move in, contact us directly or submit an application online. We’ll complete a brief screening, verify that our program is a good fit, and confirm availability.

After approval, we’ll schedule your move-in and go over house expectations to ensure a smooth transition.

We recommend bringing clothing, toiletries, medications (if applicable), and a few personal items that help you feel comfortable. Each of our homes is fully furnished and thoughtfully designed, so everything you need for day-to-day living is already provided.

To maintain a clean, organized, and elevated living environment, we ask that residents keep personal belongings minimal. Each resident is provided with a dresser and limited closet space, so a reasonable amount of clothing and a few pairs of shoes is ideal.

We primarily partner with three trusted Intensive Outpatient (IOP) programs in the area: Rustin, MFI, and Solid Ground. Each of these programs offers strong clinical support and a structured path for continued recovery.

Depending on your individual needs, schedule, and which home you are located in, we will help determine which IOP program is the best fit for you. Our goal is to make sure you’re placed in a program that supports your recovery while aligning with your lifestyle and level of care.

Yes. We encourage residents to work, attend school, or build life skills as part of their recovery journey.

Yes, we maintain structured curfews to promote accountability, safety, and consistency in early recovery. Standard curfew is 11:00 PM on weekdays and 12:00 AM on weekends.

Residents who are working or have approved schedules may be granted flexibility, as long as communication and accountability are maintained with house management.